我该如何顺利地到达山顶?放弃思考,专注攀登。
担心不会帮你把事情做完。
Worry will not help you finish the work.
只有敢于大失败的人,才可能取得大成就。
Only those who dare to fail greatly can achieve greatly.
如果神明还不帮助你,说明他相信你。
我在为正在被发明的工作积累技能,还是在为即将消失的工作优化技能?
Am I building skills for the jobs being invented, or optimizing skills for the jobs about to disappear?
把事情做完的关键,是知道哪些事情可以不做。
The whole point of getting things done is knowing what to leave undone.
行动是一切成功的基础钥匙。
Action is the foundational key to all success.
永远关注你已经走了多远,而不是你还要走多远。
Always focus on how far you've come, not how far you have to go.
以前总会给一件简单的事自动杜撰一些难度,后面发现,这世界上没有什么难事,事在人为,重要的是自己在面对这件事的态度,决定了这件事的难度
不上班就是把自己的时间赎回来。我需要掌控我的时间。
Quitting the job is buying back your own time. I need control of my time.
追求财富,而非金钱或地位。财富是那些你睡觉时仍在为你赚钱的资产。
Seek wealth, not money or status. Wealth is having assets that earn while you sleep.
内容和代码是不需要别人允许的杠杆。
Content and code are leverage that requires no one's permission.
问问自己,今天正在做的事,是否让你更接近明天想成为的自己。
Ask yourself if what you're doing today is getting you closer to where you want to be tomorrow.
去年我赚了一百万,但我穷得连时间都不剩了。我不需要财富自由,只需要经济独立。
Last year I made a million, but I was so poor I had no time left. I don't need financial freedom — I just need financial independence.
如果你想走得又远又快,就轻装上路。
If you wish to travel far and fast, travel light.
学着去建造,通过建造来学习。
Learn to build. Build to learn.
在这里,失败是一个选项。如果事情都没有失败,说明你的创新还不够。
Failure is an option here. If things are not failing, you are not innovating enough.
给我付钱的人就是精准的人。花时间在我身上的人,就是精准的人。
The person who pays me is the right person. The person who spends time on me is the right person.
与其去航母上拧螺丝,不如登上即将起飞的火箭。
Instead of tightening screws on an aircraft carrier, get on a rocket that's about to take off.
你的行动反映了你是谁。你说的话不过是人设管理。
Your actions reflect who you really are. Your words are simply reputation management.
一切在被完成之前,都是不可能的。
Everything is impossible until it's done.
工程师沉浸在解决方案里,非技术人沉浸在问题里。
While engineers immerse themselves in the solution, non-technical people immerse themselves in the problem.
梦想要大,起步要小,全程迭代。
Dream Big, Start Small, Iterate All.
别再害怕什么会出错,开始想想什么会变好。
Stop being afraid of what could go wrong and start being positive about what could go right.
去做那件事。
Do the thing.
不要因为熟悉就回头。向前走,因为那个方向才是你正在成为的自己。
Don't go back just because it's familiar. Go forward because it aligns with who you're becoming.
梦想要大,起步要小,全程迭代。
Dream big, start small, iterate all.
创造多于消费。
Create more than you consume.
创造多于消费。
Create more than you consume.
超越自己,而不是超越别人。
Go beyond yourself rather than beyond others.
一切在被完成之前,都是不可能的。
Everything is impossible until it's done.
掌握的最高境界是简单。
The highest level of mastery is simplicity.
你不是在抄这道菜,你是在搞清楚这道菜为什么好吃。
You are not copying the dish. You are figuring out why the dish tastes good.
如果你写不出来这句话,就说明你刚才在复印,不是在学习。
If you cannot write that sentence, it means you were copying, not learning.
不是你没有创造力,是你误会了创造力是什么。
It is not that you lack creativity. You misunderstood what creativity is.
创作不是发明内容,而是发明表达。
Creation is not inventing content. It is inventing expression.
没有真正的原创,只有你记得的参考和你忘记的参考。
There is no pure originality, only references you remember and references you forgot.
伟大的艺术家从不害怕参考别人。他们害怕的是表达不属于自己。
Great artists are never afraid of referencing others. They are afraid that the expression does not belong to them.
创造力从不稀缺,稀缺的是你抵御外界和自身评价的能力。
Creativity is never scarce. What is scarce is the ability to withstand judgment from others and from yourself.
旅程先于终点。
Journey before destination.
感谢你的挣扎,因为其中藏着成长和意义的机会。
Be grateful for your struggles, because within them is the opportunity for growth and meaning.
你成功了会被批评,失败了也会被批评。你行动会被批评,不行动也会被批评。
People will criticize you for your successes. They will criticize you for your failures. They will criticize you for acting. They will criticize you for not acting.
去做那件事。
Do the thing.
担心不会帮你把事情做完。
Worry will not help you finish the work.
伟大不是源于智慧,而是源于人格;人格来自聪明的人经历过困难。
Greatness does not come from intelligence. It comes from character, and character is formed by smart people going through hardship.
你得先是一场灾难,然后才能成为大师。
You have to be a disaster before you become the master.
渔夫出不了海的时候,就补网。海上风浪太大的时候,聪明人不会干等,他们修补渔网、磨快工具,为暴风雨过后做准备。因为即使在静止中,也有进步。
When fishermen cannot go to sea, they repair nets. When the sea is too rough to sail, the smart ones don't wait, they get to work. They mend their nets, sharpen their tools, and prepare for the moment the storm breaks. Because even in stillness, there's progress.
我们最痛苦的经历,成了最能定义我们的时刻。它们决定了我们是谁,或者不是谁。
Our most painful experiences become our most defining moments. They determine who we are, or who we are not.
损失已经发生了。现在唯一重要的,是在当前处境下做出最好的选择。
The damage is done. The only thing that matters now is making the best choice given your current position.
生活永远不会没有问题。
Life will never be problem free.
我们总是面对无尽的问题和挫折。我们需要接受自己的局限,并充分利用已有的东西。
We are always faced with endless problems and frustrations. We need to accept our limitations and make the best of what we have.
不快乐通常来自结果没有达到我们的期待。
Unhappiness is always the result of an outcome not meeting our expectations.
一件事本身是一回事,我们给它讲的意义故事又是另一回事。
There is the event itself and the story we tell ourselves about what it means.
掌握的最高境界是简单。
The highest level of mastery is simplicity.
最重要的对话,是你每天和自己的那场对话。
The most important conversation is the conversation you have with yourself each day.
你不是你的想法。如果你和自己的想法绑定得太紧,当它们被质疑时,你就会觉得自己被冒犯了。
You are not your idea. If you identify too closely with your ideas, you will take offense when they are challenged.
真正的努力,应该是一种明白自己在做什么,又能时刻投入在当下和其中的自控力。
Real effort should be the self-control of knowing what you are doing and being fully present in it.
担心从不会减少明天的悲伤,它只会耗尽今天的快乐。
Worry never robs tomorrow of its sorrow. It only saps today of its joy.
你能掌控自己的思想——意识到这一点,你就会找到力量。
You have control over your mind — realize this, and you will find strength.
理解得越多,恐惧得越少。
Understand more to fear less.
我们常常倾向于夸大可能的后果,好让自己免于承担做出大胆选择的负担。
The temptation is often to exaggerate potential consequences, so as to spare ourselves the burden of making a bold choice.
当我们不断拖延的时候,人生已经飞快地过去了。
While we are postponing, life speeds by.
慢下来,在歌结束之前,听见音乐。
Slow down, and hear the music, before the song is over.
年轻时,我们容易低估日子有多短。每个选择都重要,每一天都重要。年长后,我们又容易低估自己还有多少机会。别说服自己放弃,开始永远不晚。
When you're younger, it's easy to underestimate how fleeting the days can be. Each choice matters. Each day matters. When you're older, it's easy to underestimate how much opportunity you still have. Don't talk yourself out of it. It's never too late to start.
人生的容错率其实很高,也许需要学会放下已经拥有的东西。
Life actually has a high tolerance for error. Maybe we need to learn how to let go of what we already have.
很快去做,不如现在就做。
Soon is not as good as now.
代价是什么——以及是否值得付出。
What the price is — and whether or not it is worth paying.
我注意到,一些进步主义者有一个常见的问题:如果某个选择对弱势群体来说难以实现,他们就会把这当作自己不去做的理由。但如果你自己并不是弱势群体,那就只是找借口,而不是一个真正的理由。
I noticed a common pattern among some progressives: if a choice is hard for disadvantaged groups, they use that as a reason not to do it themselves. But if you are not disadvantaged, that is just an excuse, not a real reason.
如果你不把钥匙交出去,别人就没法把你逼疯。
People can't drive you crazy if you don't give them the keys.
有效沟通里,只有 20% 关乎你知道什么,80% 关乎你如何感受你知道的东西。
Only 20% of effective communication is about what you know, while 80% is concerned with how you feel about what you know.
朋友比钱更好。几乎所有钱能做到的事,朋友都能做得更好。
Friends are better than money. Almost anything money can do, friends can do better.
人类系统会朝着它持续提问的方向生长。
Human systems grow toward what they persistently ask questions about.
如果你不在乎功劳归谁,你能做成的好事就没有上限。
There is no limit to the amount of good you can do if you don't care who gets the credit.
客户的意见是数据,不是真理。陌生人的评论是噪音,不是反馈。
A client's opinion is data, not truth. A stranger's comment is noise, not feedback.
即使你很生气,说话前也要想一想。你说出的话可以被原谅,但不会被忘记。
Even when you're mad, think before you talk. The words you say can only be forgiven, not forgotten.
投入和产出并不总是匹配,尤其是对有杠杆的人来说。
Inputs don't match outputs, especially for leveraged workers.
人生真正想要的,是掌控自己的时间。
What you want in life is to be in control of your time.
舒适痛苦原则:给一个人一份能忍、又刚好提供普通舒适生活的工作,他就很难改变任何事。
The Comfortable Pain Principle: Give a man a tolerable job that pays just enough to provide mediocre comfort and I'll show you a man who won't change a thing.
一个人做一件事,总有两个理由:一个好听的理由,和一个真正的理由。
A man always has two reasons for doing something: a good reason and the real reason.
如果你的生意离不开你,那你拥有的不是生意,而是一份工作。
If your business depends on you, you don't own a business, you have a job.
真正启动一个生意,发生在你正式启动它之前。
The true start-up of a business is what happens before you start up.
不幸的事实是:你追求的目标越多,生活越平衡,你就越不可能致富。
The unfortunate truth is that the more different goals you are working towards, the more balanced your life is, the less likely you are to get rich.
你对致富有不健康的执念吗?你花时间的方式,是否反映了你对某件事的执念?
Do you have an unhealthy obsession with getting rich? Does the way you spend your time reflect an obsession with getting X?
凡是费钱费心的,租比买强。
If it flies, floats, or fornicates, always rent it.
一个人应该能够换尿布、策划入侵、杀一头猪、驾驶帆船、设计建筑、写一首十四行诗、做平衡账目、砌墙、接骨、安慰临终者、接受命令、发号施令、合作、独立行动、解方程、分析新问题、铲粪、编程、做一顿好菜、高效战斗、从容赴死。专精是昆虫才做的事。
A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects.
分享你热爱的东西,喜欢同样东西的人自然会找到你。
Share what you love, and the people who love the same things will find you.
好作品不是在真空中产生的。创造力在某种意义上永远是一种协作。
Good work isn't created in a vacuum. Creativity is always, in some sense, a collaboration.
重点不是永远活着,而是创造出某个能留下来的东西。
The idea is not to live forever, it is to create something that will.
做一次,服务很多次。
Make once, serve many.
其实真的没有 waste time 这件事情。因为你沉迷过某些事情,才能从中得到感悟。
There is really no such thing as wasted time. You can gain insight from things precisely because you were once absorbed in them.
来自社交平台的凝视,遥远而轻浮,庞大而冷漠。
The gaze from social platforms is distant and frivolous, massive and indifferent.
不要把别人拥有的当作自己失去的。
Do not treat what others have as something you have lost.
只要我能拥抱世界 那拥抱得笨拙又有什么关系?
明知会散落 任不惧盛开
把你的不幸变成你的优势
不要一直责怪过去的自己,他曾经站在雾里也很迷茫。
在大家认为没有人门的时候 发现一个门缝 如果你匆匆过去了 它就是一个门 你停留一下 它会给你开一半 你自己再推一下 它会给你把门开开
不要在心态上FOMO 要在行动上FOMO
明天太阳会照就升起
你一闭眼世界就黑了,你不是主角谁是?
人生没有白走的可以每一步都算数
当所有规则都不适用的时候,愿力会带我杀出重围!
当你深究这个问题的时候,你会发现它不需要被解决。
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